LADIES....A MUST READ IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A MAN!!!
Current mood:
Hey Ladies! Ok when someone sent me this sermon
msg by Pastor Jamal Bryant years ago but it still
rings oh so true today! I felt compelled to share it
after I read it. As a single woman I understand how
hard it is not only to date, but find a good man.
Please ladies share this with every single woman
you know, young or old. And leave your comments
after reading this. I love you and will always rep
for Women everywhere! Be blessed!
Love,
Tangie
Words from Pastor Jamal Harrison-Bryant:
I often warn women who are contemplating marriage to marry someone who can take care of them. When a woman marries, it ought to be to someone who is capable of taking her to the next level. If she comes from poverty, there is no reason for her to get married and still be impoverished. The role of the man is to take her to another place.
When she gets married, she ought to dress better, drive better, live better, and eat better, not constantly be in a struggle over where her next meal is coming from. My grandmother used to say,I can do bad all by myself. For a woman desiring a mate, the objective, of course, would be to find a Christian man, whos settled, has goals, accomplishments and a job. But a goal-oriented and focused man cant just be approached any kind of way. So the woman who seeks this type of stability must make sure that he stands out above the crowd:
I often warn women who are contemplating marriage to marry someone who can take care of them. When a woman marries, it ought to be to someone who is capable of taking her to the next level. If she comes from poverty, there is no reason for her to get married and still be impoverished. The role of the man is to take her to another place.
When she gets married, she ought to dress better, drive better, live better, and eat better, not constantly be in a struggle over where her next meal is coming from. My grandmother used to say,I can do bad all by myself. For a woman desiring a mate, the objective, of course, would be to find a Christian man, whos settled, has goals, accomplishments and a job. But a goal-oriented and focused man cant just be approached any kind of way. So the woman who seeks this type of stability must make sure that he stands out above the crowd:
1. Make sure your relationship with the Lord is strong and growing.
2. Make sure that you are presentable. Working from the inside out, your presentation should be representative of both who you are and whom you seek. Appearance is a reflection of how you see yourself.
3. Have the ability to hold an intelligent conversation.
4. And most importantly, allow the Holy Ghost to take control. You
dont need to go after him. Hes going to come after you, because after he sees and smells you and knows that you&are in his presence, hes going to want to know who you are! I know theres somebody reading this who has been chasing after the man of your dreams, but God says, Just sit still and allow patience to have her perfect work through Me.
2. Make sure that you are presentable. Working from the inside out, your presentation should be representative of both who you are and whom you seek. Appearance is a reflection of how you see yourself.
3. Have the ability to hold an intelligent conversation.
4. And most importantly, allow the Holy Ghost to take control. You
dont need to go after him. Hes going to come after you, because after he sees and smells you and knows that you&are in his presence, hes going to want to know who you are! I know theres somebody reading this who has been chasing after the man of your dreams, but God says, Just sit still and allow patience to have her perfect work through Me.
Furthermore, its never a good idea to be too forward and too aggressive. Attempting to win a mans affection by jumping into bed with him will only backfire and cause him to lose interest in ever developing a lasting relationship. It causes him to lose respect for you and question your character.
However, if he sees that you are dressed with quality, that you smell like you're somebody, that you look like you're doing fine without him, then that will attract the right attention from him. He'll have no choice but to give you his attention. Stop looking so needy, climbing into bed, trying in vain to capture a mans heart.
God woke me up in the middle of the night and said, The same thing that Naomi told Ruth to do is the same thing that I want them to do for me.
However, if he sees that you are dressed with quality, that you smell like you're somebody, that you look like you're doing fine without him, then that will attract the right attention from him. He'll have no choice but to give you his attention. Stop looking so needy, climbing into bed, trying in vain to capture a mans heart.
God woke me up in the middle of the night and said, The same thing that Naomi told Ruth to do is the same thing that I want them to do for me.
God is so sick of saints coming to Him trying to get a quickie and
never romancing Him for Who he is - going to church screaming, shouting and hollering, but hadnt been intimate with God all week long! Stop trying to treat God like a sugar daddy and start romancing Him with worship and praise: Im yours Lord...everything Ive got...everything Im not!
The God we serve, which is the God of love, demands and requires of us foreplay before He gives us what we need. In the book of Ruth, the mother-in-law tells Ruth, You have to wash. John 15:3 reminds us, Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you. When you sit in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you are taking a shower. When you hear the unadulterated Word of God, then the dirt and grime that youve accumulated all week long begins to wash off of you.
Ask God to create in you a clean heart and renew a right spirit. Stand in the word. Then wait upon the Lord to renew your strength.
Pass this on to those who have found or are seeking Mr. Right.
This message is not directed at the receiver, it is directed to women I know that touch other young women that can benefit from this information. We are to be Naomis of the world today. Our young women need to be informed of how to catch and keep a man
that will respect them.
P.S. Pass this on to every woman you know! And further explore your LOVE by getting my daily affirmation Love Lessons Life-Book avail on my website right now ---> www.TangieLarkin.com
never romancing Him for Who he is - going to church screaming, shouting and hollering, but hadnt been intimate with God all week long! Stop trying to treat God like a sugar daddy and start romancing Him with worship and praise: Im yours Lord...everything Ive got...everything Im not!
The God we serve, which is the God of love, demands and requires of us foreplay before He gives us what we need. In the book of Ruth, the mother-in-law tells Ruth, You have to wash. John 15:3 reminds us, Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you. When you sit in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you are taking a shower. When you hear the unadulterated Word of God, then the dirt and grime that youve accumulated all week long begins to wash off of you.
Ask God to create in you a clean heart and renew a right spirit. Stand in the word. Then wait upon the Lord to renew your strength.
Pass this on to those who have found or are seeking Mr. Right.
This message is not directed at the receiver, it is directed to women I know that touch other young women that can benefit from this information. We are to be Naomis of the world today. Our young women need to be informed of how to catch and keep a man
that will respect them.
P.S. Pass this on to every woman you know! And further explore your LOVE by getting my daily affirmation Love Lessons Life-Book avail on my website right now ---> www.TangieLarkin.com
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